Lots Of Love
Family Day
After work, I drop by Bedok NTUC to get some fruits for my sick hubby. Back at his place, Abang Jenal's family was there early then came Kak Yati and her husband followed by the kids, Shahirah and Fatin and behind was Kak Ina and husband. Daniel came later since he was still resting at home 'cause he was working the night before.
Mother cooked tom yam soup with bbq chicken meat, hotdogs, nuggets and fried kway teow. It was a promising meal, really enjoy to the last piece. Kak Yati brought along her home-made sicilian orange cake and matcha-green tea-chocolate stars, the taste was scrumptious, soft texture, rich in flavour and tempted to have another piece. I simply adore Kak Yati's creativity and interest in baking.
After meal, everyone simply gathered around, mingling and sharing things till I decide to make a move.
To My One and Only Hubby, do have a good and sufficient rest. Do have proper meals regularly. Take fruits after each meal, an apple a day keeps the doctor away. Drink plenty of water, cut down on caffeine, sweet/carbonate drinks and do have a balanced diet. I just want you to get well, it hurts to see you in agony. Get Well Soon, Hubby..!!
p.s. I will take care of you and be by your side always.
Hugs & Kisses...
Lots Of Love
Mother cooked tom yam soup with bbq chicken meat, hotdogs, nuggets and fried kway teow. It was a promising meal, really enjoy to the last piece. Kak Yati brought along her home-made sicilian orange cake and matcha-green tea-chocolate stars, the taste was scrumptious, soft texture, rich in flavour and tempted to have another piece. I simply adore Kak Yati's creativity and interest in baking.
After meal, everyone simply gathered around, mingling and sharing things till I decide to make a move.
To My One and Only Hubby, do have a good and sufficient rest. Do have proper meals regularly. Take fruits after each meal, an apple a day keeps the doctor away. Drink plenty of water, cut down on caffeine, sweet/carbonate drinks and do have a balanced diet. I just want you to get well, it hurts to see you in agony. Get Well Soon, Hubby..!!
p.s. I will take care of you and be by your side always.
Hugs & Kisses...
Lots Of Love
Renewing Our Vows, Anniversary
I can be myself when I am with you.
Your idea of romance is dim lights, slow music, and just the two of us.
Because you make me feel like,....like I have never felt before.
I can tell you anything and everything, 'cause we share our life together.
Your idea of romance is dim lights, slow music, and just the two of us.
Because you make me feel like,....like I have never felt before.
I can tell you anything and everything, 'cause we share our life together.
Your undying faith is what keeps the flame out of love alive
You and me together, we can make magic.
We're a perfect match.
Thinking of you, fills me with a wonderful feeling.
Your love gives me the feeling, that the best is still ahead.
You never give up on me, and that's what keeps me going.
You are simply irresistible
I love you because you bring the best out of me.
You have a terrific sense of humor
Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat
You're the one who holds the key to my heart
You always say what I need to hear (I Love You).
You have taught me the true meaning of love.
Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything.
You are my key to dream.
I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you.
When I look into your eyes, I can see your heart.
Your love for me is a pure.
I love to hear your voice.
Your love has helped me to rediscover myself.
Your love is an effective anti-dote to despair.
I love to wake up with you by my side...It makes my days better.
You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what.
I love that feeling of being secure when you wrap your arms around me.
I love the way you keep your cool when I do something stupid.
Just being with you feels like I can defy the whole world.
You mean the world to me.
I like your small gestures about how much you care.
I love the way you treasure the gifts that I gave you.
I love the way you patch up with me after a quarrel.
And, of-course, your intelligence, 'cause you were smart enough to fall in love with me.
Happy 3 years Anniversary!
It has been a wonderful ride of my life, sharing each day and each second with you. May our relationship be bless till eternity, may the door to happiness be wide open for us and may our everlasting love be witness by the world. Happy 3 years Anniversary!
Saving a Relationship
Understand Each Other Well
The best way for relationship problem solving is by trying your best to understand each others difficulties and feelings. Many times, both party tend to think only about themselves and this makes the other person frustrated. Be there for your partner in happy and difficult times and fulfill the promises you have made. It is possible to understand each other well, only if you think from the other persons perspective. You should keep aside your ego and accept the fact that no person is always right. If you know that your partner does not like some of your habits like drinking, smoking or certain aspects of your behavior, then you should try to improve yourself. You should sort out your relationship issues and not let them destroy your relationship. Making a compromise and having the qualities of patience and tolerance are the key to save a relationship.
Communicate with Each Other
Lack of proper communication is one of the major causes of a relationship break up in the case of many people. Less communication creates unnecessary doubts in the minds of the couples and this suspicion gives rise to frequent quarrels and tensions in the relationship. Even if you have committed this mistake of not communicating well with your partner, you can rectify it by taking the initiative yourself. It is necessary that couples spend good amount of time with each other to clear all the misconceptions and doubts in their minds. You should appreciate each others achievements and good qualities to ensure the person that you are for him.
Apologize for Your Mistakes
It takes a lot of courage to accept your mistakes and if you do this, then your partner might consider the idea of continuing with the relationship. You can request your partner to forget the past and promise of not repeating the mistakes again.
Give Your Partner His or Her Space
Even though you are together, your partner has every right of doing things which he/she wants. You should not raise an objection when your partner decide to join/go for a party with office colleagues or friends. Frequent taunting and interfering with every decision taken will agitate the opposite person. If you are confident that you have done your best to make your relationship work well, you should trust your partner and not keep a tab on each and every action of his/her.
The best way for relationship problem solving is by trying your best to understand each others difficulties and feelings. Many times, both party tend to think only about themselves and this makes the other person frustrated. Be there for your partner in happy and difficult times and fulfill the promises you have made. It is possible to understand each other well, only if you think from the other persons perspective. You should keep aside your ego and accept the fact that no person is always right. If you know that your partner does not like some of your habits like drinking, smoking or certain aspects of your behavior, then you should try to improve yourself. You should sort out your relationship issues and not let them destroy your relationship. Making a compromise and having the qualities of patience and tolerance are the key to save a relationship.
Communicate with Each Other
Lack of proper communication is one of the major causes of a relationship break up in the case of many people. Less communication creates unnecessary doubts in the minds of the couples and this suspicion gives rise to frequent quarrels and tensions in the relationship. Even if you have committed this mistake of not communicating well with your partner, you can rectify it by taking the initiative yourself. It is necessary that couples spend good amount of time with each other to clear all the misconceptions and doubts in their minds. You should appreciate each others achievements and good qualities to ensure the person that you are for him.
Apologize for Your Mistakes
It takes a lot of courage to accept your mistakes and if you do this, then your partner might consider the idea of continuing with the relationship. You can request your partner to forget the past and promise of not repeating the mistakes again.
Give Your Partner His or Her Space
Even though you are together, your partner has every right of doing things which he/she wants. You should not raise an objection when your partner decide to join/go for a party with office colleagues or friends. Frequent taunting and interfering with every decision taken will agitate the opposite person. If you are confident that you have done your best to make your relationship work well, you should trust your partner and not keep a tab on each and every action of his/her.
Lots Of Love
Cousin's Outing ( Indra's Birthday Celebration )
Yesterday was my cousin's birthday, Indra, so my other cousins ( Mamat and Hezri ) my cousin sister together with her husband ( Kak Ina and Abang Wan ) went out to celebrate his birthday. We had dinner over at Clark Quay and after dinner we all head down to Chinatown for karaoke.
It has been awhile since I last went out with my cousins and enjoy ourselves as a family, have a good quality time together. We sang songs, laughed to every jokes and most importantly the birthday boy enjoy himself, singing his heart out. We had such good time together, just the cousins, building a strong bonding between us.
To the birthday boy, I wished him many happy returns, may he be blessed with healthy body and mind, may he have a good future and stable job.
Lots Of Love
Fallin' Out
Many couples spend a good times in relationship, also wondering if the person is right for them, whether they should stay or go. Sometimes with us feeling and wondering this way prevent the relationship to grow.
There are many reasons that makes us doubt about our relationship. Some might say that though they love their partner, they do not know if they are being loved in return; or ready for commitment; some are concerned about qualities or behaviors they're uncomfortable with. Others remain in relationships hoping to change their partners, or afraid of being alone. Most people don't want to lose the time they've put in, having to start all over again. While some assume that they pick the wrong person.
It is always a mistake to stay in a relationship if it is about wanting the other person to change. Although people promise to change, change is difficult and only happens when an he/she wants to change for themselves. When a person change to please their partner, this change is temporary, because in order to change time, commitment and effort are needed. See how much of this person you can accept just as they are. If you want to change most of them, it's best to let go. Try to accept them as who they are. When a person feels accepted, they will change for the better.
You will feel loved when you are considered, listened to and respected. If your partner says they love you but neglect your needs, it is not love, to feel attached. Trust your feelings. If the relationship is good, you will feel that you are cared for.
When a couple is willing to sit down, truly talk and listen to one another, they are way ahead. All relationship run into obstacles, as long as both party are willing to talk and to listen, it will make things easy and a strong relationship are build. During your communications be careful not to criticize or blame rather than giving a sarcastic remarks makes the person feel outrage.
If you find that your partner does not trust you, it is very difficult to continue with the relationship. Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Without trust, it makes the other party feel insecure. Trust is a necessity.
Whether or not the relationship you are in is the right one for you if it isn't, you have to move on, take time to be thankful for all the good you received from your partner. Leave with a positive mindset, this will help to look forward in life.
Is it ever too late to repair a broken and wounded relationship?
Lots Of Love
Somebody's Me
You, do you remember me?
Like, I remember you?
Do you spend your life, going back in your mind to that time?
'Cause I, I walk the streets alone
I hate being on my own
And everyone can see that, I really fell
And I'm going through hell
Thinking about you with somebody else
[Chorus]
Somebody wants you , Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath, without you it's lonely
Somebody hopes that one day you will see
That Somebody's Me
That Somebody's Me
Yeah...
How, How did we go wrong?
It was so good, and now it's gone
And I pray at night, that our passing will cross
What we hide isn't lost
'Cause you're always driving in my thoughts
[Chorus]
Somebody wants you , Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath, without you it's lonely
Somebody hopes that one day you will see
That Somebody's Me
That Somebody's Me
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath, without you it's lonely
Somebody hopes that one day you will see
That Somebody's Me
That Somebody's Me
You'll always be in my life, even if I'm not in your life
'Cause you're in my memory
You, will you remember me?
And before you set me free, oh listen please...
[Chorus]
Somebody wants you , Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath, without you it's lonely
Somebody hopes that one day you will see
That Somebody's Me
That Somebody's Me
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath, without you it's lonely
Somebody hopes that one day you will see
That Somebody's Me
That Somebody's Me
That Somebody's Me
That Somebody's Me
Lots Of Love
Job scope
As everyone knew that I am working 6 days per week with 1 off day, working 44 hours per week and on every public holidays. Being paid $1200, NO incentives, NO double-pay on holidays, NO transport allowances, NO benefits (ONLY medical benefits, 14 days medical leave), 10 days annual leave per year (accumulating a day on every one and the half month working), NO over-time pay (if more than 44 hours work, we gained ONLY time-off), working 2 shifts (0700-1500, 1500-2300) changing shift will be on every Sunday.
I am working as an operation officer, handling the passengers flow for departure/arrival ferries ensuring smooth schedules for ferries. The task at work are TCC (terminal control centre) whereby I have to aliase with the captain and crew of the ferries for departures/arrivals, Information counter (providing informations that are inquire for), baggage counter (checking-in baggages), boarding gate (ensuring smooth flow of passengers boarding to the correct destination/ferries, printing manifest/port clearance), jetty (crowd control and ensuring smooth boarding) and lastly, baggage pier (ensuring all departure/arrivals baggages are in good condition, load/unload to the right destination/ferries).
Each time, I work in the morning shift, I will be waking up at 0430am in the wee morning getting ready for work and leave home at 0530am walking to the MRT which I will be reaching work at 0630am. The most tiring part was to be changing shift from afternoon to morning which i will be ending my shifts at 1100pm, reaching home at 1145pm, I will be having my supper before head to bed which by then was about 0100am and have to wake up at 0430am the next morning (slept for only 3 an half hours).
Definately, once I get home, I will be resting and taking a nap till evening sometimes too tired till 0800pm at night I woke up. Then I will be having my dinner, watching tv and do abit of the house chores before I finally have a piece of my time alone. When comes my off day, I sometimes wake up late and its the only time I can laze around. Usually, during my working days, I seldom do the house work because I wont have enough time and apart from that I will be resting so the only time I will be able to the chores will be on my off day.
I am working as an operation officer, handling the passengers flow for departure/arrival ferries ensuring smooth schedules for ferries. The task at work are TCC (terminal control centre) whereby I have to aliase with the captain and crew of the ferries for departures/arrivals, Information counter (providing informations that are inquire for), baggage counter (checking-in baggages), boarding gate (ensuring smooth flow of passengers boarding to the correct destination/ferries, printing manifest/port clearance), jetty (crowd control and ensuring smooth boarding) and lastly, baggage pier (ensuring all departure/arrivals baggages are in good condition, load/unload to the right destination/ferries).
Each time, I work in the morning shift, I will be waking up at 0430am in the wee morning getting ready for work and leave home at 0530am walking to the MRT which I will be reaching work at 0630am. The most tiring part was to be changing shift from afternoon to morning which i will be ending my shifts at 1100pm, reaching home at 1145pm, I will be having my supper before head to bed which by then was about 0100am and have to wake up at 0430am the next morning (slept for only 3 an half hours).
Definately, once I get home, I will be resting and taking a nap till evening sometimes too tired till 0800pm at night I woke up. Then I will be having my dinner, watching tv and do abit of the house chores before I finally have a piece of my time alone. When comes my off day, I sometimes wake up late and its the only time I can laze around. Usually, during my working days, I seldom do the house work because I wont have enough time and apart from that I will be resting so the only time I will be able to the chores will be on my off day.
Lots Of Love
New Year Resolutions
I have been missing alots of updates in life recently because my lappy was down with a flu. Its working fast and well now so let me re-cap a few events.
Towards the end of 2009 and to a start of the new year was very refreshing which I am looking forward for. A new year, a new start, a new breath of air, new commitment, new resolution and a promising future.
The year 2009, has been a great year for me whereby I have learned alot in daily life cycles from having sets of problems and to be able to resolve it, great fighting spirits in enduring moments in life, being patience, surviving in obstacles and coping thru financially.
In this new year 2010, my resolutions are to be more prepared for what that lies ahead of my pave, be more commitment in relationship, families and career, build strong communication within my circles, be more optimistic, dependable and reliable, be healthy and happy, to blossom my love commitment and being the best out of myself. In God's will, amin.
Lots Of Love
Towards the end of 2009 and to a start of the new year was very refreshing which I am looking forward for. A new year, a new start, a new breath of air, new commitment, new resolution and a promising future.
The year 2009, has been a great year for me whereby I have learned alot in daily life cycles from having sets of problems and to be able to resolve it, great fighting spirits in enduring moments in life, being patience, surviving in obstacles and coping thru financially.
In this new year 2010, my resolutions are to be more prepared for what that lies ahead of my pave, be more commitment in relationship, families and career, build strong communication within my circles, be more optimistic, dependable and reliable, be healthy and happy, to blossom my love commitment and being the best out of myself. In God's will, amin.
Lots Of Love
Birthday Celebration
On the 28th December 2009, me and my colleagues made a surprised party for our birthday girl and boy, Kak Jai and Zul. We bought them a small cake and ordered pizza. We planned it without them knowing and everything went out smoothly as planned.
We waited till the last ferry departure and had the party in the office. Everyone played their part in making sure everything went as planned.The minute Kak Jai and Zul entered the office, we shouted 'Happy Birthday !!' and sang the 'birthday song'. We had the cake cut and some photo-taking.
Lots Of Love
We waited till the last ferry departure and had the party in the office. Everyone played their part in making sure everything went as planned.The minute Kak Jai and Zul entered the office, we shouted 'Happy Birthday !!' and sang the 'birthday song'. We had the cake cut and some photo-taking.
Lots Of Love