Many couples spend a good times in relationship, also wondering if the person is right for them, whether they should stay or go. Sometimes with us feeling and wondering this way prevent the relationship to grow.
There are many reasons that makes us doubt about our relationship. Some might say that though they love their partner, they do not know if they are being loved in return; or ready for commitment; some are concerned about qualities or behaviors they're uncomfortable with. Others remain in relationships hoping to change their partners, or afraid of being alone. Most people don't want to lose the time they've put in, having to start all over again. While some assume that they pick the wrong person.
It is always a mistake to stay in a relationship if it is about wanting the other person to change. Although people promise to change, change is difficult and only happens when an he/she wants to change for themselves. When a person change to please their partner, this change is temporary, because in order to change time, commitment and effort are needed. See how much of this person you can accept just as they are. If you want to change most of them, it's best to let go. Try to accept them as who they are. When a person feels accepted, they will change for the better.
You will feel loved when you are considered, listened to and respected. If your partner says they love you but neglect your needs, it is not love, to feel attached. Trust your feelings. If the relationship is good, you will feel that you are cared for.
When a couple is willing to sit down, truly talk and listen to one another, they are way ahead. All relationship run into obstacles, as long as both party are willing to talk and to listen, it will make things easy and a strong relationship are build. During your communications be careful not to criticize or blame rather than giving a sarcastic remarks makes the person feel outrage.
If you find that your partner does not trust you, it is very difficult to continue with the relationship. Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Without trust, it makes the other party feel insecure. Trust is a necessity.
Whether or not the relationship you are in is the right one for you if it isn't, you have to move on, take time to be thankful for all the good you received from your partner. Leave with a positive mindset, this will help to look forward in life.
Is it ever too late to repair a broken and wounded relationship?
Lots Of Love
