Renewing Our Vows, Anniversary

I can be myself when I am with you.

Your idea of romance is dim lights, slow music, and just the two of us.

Because you make me feel like,....like I have never felt before.

I can tell you anything and everything, 'cause we share our life together.

Your undying faith is what keeps the flame out of love alive

You and me together, we can make magic.

We're a perfect match.

Thinking of you, fills me with a wonderful feeling.

Your love gives me the feeling, that the best is still ahead.

You never give up on me, and that's what keeps me going.

You are simply irresistible

I love you because you bring the best out of me.

 You have a terrific sense of humor

Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat

You're the one who holds the key to my heart

You always say what I need to hear (I Love You).

You have taught me the true meaning of love.

Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything.

You are my key to dream.

I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you.

When I look into your eyes, I can see your heart.

Your love for me is a pure.

I love to hear your voice.

Your love has helped me to rediscover myself.

Your love is an effective anti-dote to despair.

I love to wake up with you by my side...It makes my days better.

You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what.

I love that feeling of being secure when you wrap your arms around me.

I love the way you keep your cool when I do something stupid.

Just being with you feels like I can defy the whole world.

You mean the world to me.

I like your small gestures about how much you care.

I love the way you treasure the gifts that I gave you.

I love the way you patch up with me after a quarrel.

And, of-course, your intelligence, 'cause you were smart enough to fall in love with me.

Happy 3 years Anniversary!

It has been a wonderful ride of my life, sharing each day and each second with you. May our relationship be bless till eternity, may the door to happiness be wide open for us and may our everlasting love be witness by the world. Happy 3 years Anniversary!

Lots Of Love

Saving a Relationship

Understand Each Other Well
The best way for relationship problem solving is by trying your best to understand each others difficulties and feelings. Many times, both party tend to think only about themselves and this makes the other person frustrated. Be there for your partner in happy and difficult times and fulfill the promises you have made. It is possible to understand each other well, only if you think from the other persons perspective. You should keep aside your ego and accept the fact that no person is always right. If you know that your partner does not like some of your habits like drinking, smoking or certain aspects of your behavior, then you should try to improve yourself. You should sort out your relationship issues and not let them destroy your relationship. Making a compromise and having the qualities of patience and tolerance are the key to save a relationship.

Communicate with Each Other
Lack of proper communication is one of the major causes of a relationship break up in the case of many people. Less communication creates unnecessary doubts in the minds of the couples and this suspicion gives rise to frequent quarrels and tensions in the relationship. Even if you have committed this mistake of not communicating well with your partner, you can rectify it by taking the initiative yourself. It is necessary that couples spend good amount of time with each other to clear all the misconceptions and doubts in their minds. You should appreciate each others achievements and good qualities to ensure the person that you are for him.

Apologize for Your Mistakes
It takes a lot of courage to accept your mistakes and if you do this, then your partner might consider the idea of continuing with the relationship. You can request your partner to forget the past and promise of not repeating the mistakes again.

Give Your Partner His or Her Space
Even though you are together, your partner has every right of doing things which he/she wants. You should not raise an objection when your partner decide to join/go for a party with office colleagues or friends. Frequent taunting and interfering with every decision taken will agitate the opposite person. If you are confident that you have done your best to make your relationship work well, you should trust your partner and not keep a tab on each and every action of his/her.

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Fallin' Out

Many couples spend a good times in relationship, also wondering if the person is right for them, whether they should stay or go. Sometimes with us feeling and wondering this way prevent the relationship to grow.

There are many reasons that makes us doubt about our relationship. Some might say that though they love their partner, they do not know if they are being loved in return; or ready for commitment; some are concerned about qualities or behaviors they're uncomfortable with. Others remain in relationships hoping to change their partners, or afraid of being alone. Most people don't want to lose the time they've put in, having to start all over again. While some assume that they pick the wrong person.

It is always a mistake to stay in a relationship if it is about wanting the other person to change. Although people promise to change, change is difficult and only happens when an he/she wants to change for themselves. When a person change to please their partner, this change is temporary, because in order to change time, commitment and effort are needed. See how much of this person you can accept just as they are. If you want to change most of them, it's best to let go. Try to accept them as who they are. When a person feels accepted, they will change for the better.

You will feel loved when you are considered, listened to and respected. If your partner says they love you but neglect your needs, it is not love, to feel attached. Trust your feelings. If the relationship is good, you will feel that you are cared for.

When a couple is willing to sit down, truly talk and listen to one another, they are way ahead. All relationship run into obstacles, as long as both party are willing to talk and to listen, it will make things easy and a strong relationship are build. During your communications be careful not to criticize or blame rather than giving a sarcastic remarks makes the person feel outrage.

If you find that your partner does not trust you, it is very difficult to continue with the relationship. Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Without trust, it makes the other party feel insecure. Trust is a necessity.

Whether or not the relationship you are in is the right one for you if it isn't, you have to move on, take time to be thankful for all the good you received from your partner. Leave with a positive mindset, this will help  to look forward in life.

Is it ever too late to repair a broken and wounded relationship?

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Somebody's Me

You, do you remember me?
Like, I remember you?
Do you spend your life, going back in your mind to that time?
'Cause I, I walk the streets alone
I hate being on my own
And everyone can see that, I really fell
And I'm going through hell
Thinking about you with somebody else

[Chorus]
Somebody wants you , Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath, without you it's lonely
Somebody hopes that one day you will see
That Somebody's Me
That Somebody's Me
Yeah...

How, How did we go wrong?
It was so good, and now it's gone
And I pray at night, that our passing will cross
What we hide isn't lost
'Cause you're always driving in my thoughts

[Chorus]

Somebody wants you , Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath, without you it's lonely
Somebody hopes that one day you will see
That Somebody's Me
That Somebody's Me

You'll always be in my life, even if I'm not in your life
'Cause you're in my memory
You, will you remember me?
And before you set me free, oh listen please...

[Chorus]

Somebody wants you , Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath, without you it's lonely
Somebody hopes that one day you will see
That Somebody's Me
That Somebody's Me

That Somebody's Me

That Somebody's Me

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Choices In Life

There was once that I have to choose,
either gain or lose...
I cant have everything and take chances
and feel the pain...
And not to love in vain
cause love wont set me free...
I can't just stand around
and watch this life pass me by...

Even if it hurts me...
Even if it make me cry...
Even if I am alone...
I have to find 'myself' through this roughness...

Don't care about all the pain that I felt
cause I just want to be happy...
I am just holding on tightly to my faith and believes,
and won't let it go...

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Tinggal Kenagan

Pernah ada rasa cinta antara kita,

kini tinggal kenangan...

Inginku lupakan semua tentang dirimu,

namun tak lagi kan seperti dirimu... Oh bintangku...

Jauh kau pergi meninggalkan diriku,

disini aku merindukan dirimu

Kini ku cuba mencari penggantimu

Namun tak lagi seperti dirimu... Oh kekasih...

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Lonely

Loneliness, means "feeling lonely," describes a human state or feeling involving isolation, or the feeling of disconnection with others, etc. Often accompanied by a sense of yearning for connection. Usually through hopes of romantic companion, in the arms of another.

I used to have him near, I used to have him close by, I used to have him by my side but now he is gone..., gone with the wind...

Alone... Why must I be alone, Alone... Why must I dream alone, Apart... Why must we be apart,
Alone... Why must I be alone...

Somewhere there is someone that dreams of your smile, and finds in your presence that life is worthwhile, so when you are lonely remember it is true, someone somewhere is thinking of you.

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Made In Heaven...

Faizal,
I love you so much
I love you with all of my heart
I will never get over the feeling that I have so strongly for you
I just keep thinking about how if I would ever lose you
How I would spend the rest of my life trying to get you back
And thinking about how my life will never be complete without you in it

Faizal,
You are my world
You are my strength
You are the reason that I never give up in life
You are the reason that I want to live
You are the greatest thing that has ever happened to me
I just keep thinking of the mistakes that I have made in our relationship
And how I would go back to take them all away
I know that we will have our little fights and arguments
Every argument that we have kills me inside
But all that I can think of is
In the end will we remain together?
And I know that you will be there for me when I need you the most
You sit there and wonder if I don't love you
But you got it all wrong
I love you more and more each day
I love you more and more with every breath that I take
And with every smile that I make
Everyday I think of how I want to spend the rest of my life with you
I sit here everyday just waiting to hear your voice and waiting to hear your laugh
I know that you have been hurt before
But there is nothing that I can do about that
Just because of that I just want you to know that I don't love you any less

Faizal,
I just want you to know that I love you and will forever more
No matter what people say, it won't change the way how i feel about you...

I love you, I miss you always... my hubby Faizal Razali...

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Betrayal

I read an article and would like to share my point of views...

Is it hurt, disappointment, anger, loss of trust, humiliated, neglected, loss of self-esteem? Betrayal has a way of stealing your smiles and laughter. It has a way of turning your love into pure hate. People nowadays show less care and concern in regards to their partner’s feelings. They say they care, but their actions and reactions tend to show otherwise.

Some people are 'quiet betrayal'. They know exactly how to turn a situation to benefit them, making you fall and feel like you are in the wrong. Many relationships are controlled by either side having this ability. Relationships can be manipulated, the one that always get bullied is the naive ones. Most of the time, many are not aware that they are victims to a betrayal.

In a relationship, betrayals are one of the reason to failure because we put ourselves in an unstable commitment through our trust and love for the other person. We must communicate more openly so that we have an equal understanding of what the other believes and feels about certain issues. We must both come to agreements on what is acceptable for us, don’t try to change the things that cannot be changed, but do change what you can. Situations can be made or avoided in a relationship.

Love your partner like you will never love another, to give love is to receive love.

"I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.”
- Angeleaknewin -

Heartbreak

For a long time I had not known what heartbreak had felt to an untouched heart, to have your heart broken would take no more then a second., an action, a thought, a feeling. A second is all it could take. But there is another way to have your heart broken. Not through an action, a though or a feeling. But just by being there, in a physical form. But not with the soul, the emotion. The thing you really love about them. The thing your losing from then. But it is not that there dying inside. It is the smile they used to give you, is no longer given to you. The look they give you the feeling of love and compassion, now becomes stare of boredom and regret. The thing that kills you inside every time you look at them with all the love in your heart and which they shrug off in the most painful way.