Believing In Making Up

When mistakes happens, you jump to conclusion without talking things out, blaming other party, assuming things, being selfish in one's mind, behaving unreasonably and ridiculously.

When we used to agree to talk our minds and problems out so that we will understand what actually happens and to avoid further arguement and quarrell. It won't become a discussion if both are at their wits but when there is give and take in a communication and also giving one another a chance to open up to talk, I don't see problems coming. If one party is being one sided and self-centered, there won't be just a problem but problems.

Even so after u gave in and try to talked things out, still its one-sided, 'silence' is a golden word and a thing to do for that moment. When the air is cool, crop up together and open up to talk and discuss the problems. Its quite true about what people say, "Easy to say but hard to do", its no harm in trying then just giving up.

"Sorry seems to be the hardest word to say..." though the 5 words meant a lot.

For once, I am expressing sincerely, in hopes to mend things up be it my fault or others because its not a crime in giving in to others and to open up your heart.

I may not be as perfect as I speak but I am trying maybe not hard enough for some, at least its trying than not at all.

"Success happens when there is failures" and I believe there will always be sunshine after every downpour and even a rainbow across the blue sky if you see with an open heart.

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Together Over The Weekend

We went out to Sim Lim Square to buy a cooling fan for my laptop. Since we had the whole day to ourselves, we survey almost every stores in each level. It was so hard to find a cooling fan that suits my budget and preferance. I am so lucky to have my hubby who is someone that I can rely on about gadgets and technology since I don't know what to look out for in buying such gadgets. We walked in and out of every stores, taking note of the price, the material, the function, etc. with all the informations, we compared prices and eventually bought myself a transparent cooling fan which operates on USB cable for power and the fan speed is strong, the movement of the blades is silent and it cost me $8.

After Sim Lim Square, we walked over to Bugis Street, it was so crowded since its the weekends and the chinese are shopping for their New Year. It was hard to move around the alley, the whole place was so cramped. I bought myself a pair of sandals for $15. Since Chinese New Year is around the corner, everywhere is having sales and discounts, everything was selling at their cheapest and lowest price.

In the evening, we head back to my place, sitting by the park. We wrapped up about the day, talked about us and just enjoy the view and being close to each other.

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Shopping @ The IKEA Store Is Easy

Shopping at the IKEA store was easy as the ideas and inspiration of their design is unique and free, every product has a price tag with details of size, materials, colors, care instructions, etc. We are also able to plan our purchases, there is a stand where you will be able to find paper, pencil, measuring tape and a copy of their catalogue which you can find  throughout the store.

I was out with hubby at IKEA Tampines to survey stuffs and find a laptop support so that I can use my lappy in bed. I have jot down details of the items I am surveying from browsing the catalogue.

Shopping List :-

1.  KASSET mag box with lid-white
2. VAGGIS Noticeboard
3. Snails storage
4. Dilling bed storage box-white
5. KASSA blad-white/gray
6. SAMLA box with lid-transparent
7. KNUBBIG table lamp
8. Mirror (round)
9. RIBBA photo frame
10. KAJSA Blad quilt cover/pillow cover-white/gray
11.  Laptop support
12. Decorations (in my room)

We walked around the store starting from the play room, living rooms, dining rooms, kitchens, bedrooms, wardrobes and storage, bathroom, work area and lastly children's IKEA. Finally, after a long day at the store, I bought myself a laptop support which was actually a in-bed tray for just $8.

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Colleagues At Work

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Family Day

After work, I drop by Bedok NTUC to get some fruits for my sick hubby. Back at his place, Abang Jenal's family was there early then came Kak Yati and her husband followed by the kids, Shahirah and Fatin and behind was Kak Ina and husband. Daniel came later since he was still resting at home 'cause he was working the night before.

Mother cooked tom yam soup with bbq chicken meat, hotdogs, nuggets and fried kway teow. It was a promising meal, really enjoy to the last piece. Kak Yati brought along her home-made sicilian orange cake and matcha-green tea-chocolate stars, the taste was scrumptious, soft texture, rich in flavour and tempted to have another piece. I simply adore Kak Yati's creativity and interest in baking.

After meal, everyone simply gathered around, mingling and sharing things till I decide to make a move.

To My One and Only Hubby, do have a good and sufficient rest. Do have proper meals regularly. Take fruits after each meal, an apple a day keeps the doctor away. Drink plenty of water, cut down on caffeine, sweet/carbonate drinks and do have a balanced diet. I just want you to get well, it hurts to see you in agony. Get Well Soon, Hubby..!!

p.s. I will take care of you and be by your side always.

Hugs & Kisses...

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Renewing Our Vows, Anniversary

I can be myself when I am with you.

Your idea of romance is dim lights, slow music, and just the two of us.

Because you make me feel like,....like I have never felt before.

I can tell you anything and everything, 'cause we share our life together.

Your undying faith is what keeps the flame out of love alive

You and me together, we can make magic.

We're a perfect match.

Thinking of you, fills me with a wonderful feeling.

Your love gives me the feeling, that the best is still ahead.

You never give up on me, and that's what keeps me going.

You are simply irresistible

I love you because you bring the best out of me.

 You have a terrific sense of humor

Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat

You're the one who holds the key to my heart

You always say what I need to hear (I Love You).

You have taught me the true meaning of love.

Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything.

You are my key to dream.

I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you.

When I look into your eyes, I can see your heart.

Your love for me is a pure.

I love to hear your voice.

Your love has helped me to rediscover myself.

Your love is an effective anti-dote to despair.

I love to wake up with you by my side...It makes my days better.

You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what.

I love that feeling of being secure when you wrap your arms around me.

I love the way you keep your cool when I do something stupid.

Just being with you feels like I can defy the whole world.

You mean the world to me.

I like your small gestures about how much you care.

I love the way you treasure the gifts that I gave you.

I love the way you patch up with me after a quarrel.

And, of-course, your intelligence, 'cause you were smart enough to fall in love with me.

Happy 3 years Anniversary!

It has been a wonderful ride of my life, sharing each day and each second with you. May our relationship be bless till eternity, may the door to happiness be wide open for us and may our everlasting love be witness by the world. Happy 3 years Anniversary!

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Saving a Relationship

Understand Each Other Well
The best way for relationship problem solving is by trying your best to understand each others difficulties and feelings. Many times, both party tend to think only about themselves and this makes the other person frustrated. Be there for your partner in happy and difficult times and fulfill the promises you have made. It is possible to understand each other well, only if you think from the other persons perspective. You should keep aside your ego and accept the fact that no person is always right. If you know that your partner does not like some of your habits like drinking, smoking or certain aspects of your behavior, then you should try to improve yourself. You should sort out your relationship issues and not let them destroy your relationship. Making a compromise and having the qualities of patience and tolerance are the key to save a relationship.

Communicate with Each Other
Lack of proper communication is one of the major causes of a relationship break up in the case of many people. Less communication creates unnecessary doubts in the minds of the couples and this suspicion gives rise to frequent quarrels and tensions in the relationship. Even if you have committed this mistake of not communicating well with your partner, you can rectify it by taking the initiative yourself. It is necessary that couples spend good amount of time with each other to clear all the misconceptions and doubts in their minds. You should appreciate each others achievements and good qualities to ensure the person that you are for him.

Apologize for Your Mistakes
It takes a lot of courage to accept your mistakes and if you do this, then your partner might consider the idea of continuing with the relationship. You can request your partner to forget the past and promise of not repeating the mistakes again.

Give Your Partner His or Her Space
Even though you are together, your partner has every right of doing things which he/she wants. You should not raise an objection when your partner decide to join/go for a party with office colleagues or friends. Frequent taunting and interfering with every decision taken will agitate the opposite person. If you are confident that you have done your best to make your relationship work well, you should trust your partner and not keep a tab on each and every action of his/her.

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